Category: Relationship

Real talk about relationship

20 Sweet Illustrations of Father-Daughter Love for Father’s Day

Happy Father’s Day! This Father’s Day, as with all other Father’s Day, reminds me of my late dad and how close we were. There’s something really unique about the bond between fathers and daughters. So in honor of all the daughters who were “daddy’s pet”, let’s celebrate the ever special Father-Daughter...

Powerful & Timeless Relationship Advice From Lauryn Hill – Doo Woop (That Thing)

Lauryn Hill is one of the most iconic women in music and hip-hop, a real queen of the pack. She came into the limelight with multi-platinum-selling, Grammy-winning group the Fugees. However, with her 1998 solo debut, The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill, the singer, songwriter, rapper, and producer established herself as...

How Do You Hold On To A Broken Marriage? – A True Life Story.

  The fight to hold on. by Judy Rousseau . After 22 years of marriage, my husband turned to me one day and said, “Judy, I need to tell you something. I just don’t love you anymore.” After 22 years of marriage, my husband turned to me one day and...

MY SPOUSE CHEATED. SHOULD I GET A DIVORCE?

In the bible, Jesus says you are allowed to divorce your partner if he or she is guilty of adultery. 3 Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?” 4 “Haven’t you read,” he replied,...

TIRED OF WAITING FOR LOVE? 5 REASONS YOU SHOULDN’T GET IMPATIENT

Waiting for love is very rewarding Marriage is a life-long journey, and waiting for love may be tough, but it’s the wise thing to do. Just ask Banky. After years of searching, he finaly struck gold with sweet Adesua Etomi. Waiting for true love is like waiting at the bus-stop...

DO YOU EVEN LIKE YOUR PARTNER? THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LIKE AND LOVE

IS THERE A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LIKE AND LOVE? It’s one thing to love someone. And a totally different thing to actually, genuinely, like the person. Like and love are two totally different things. You could like someone – for their personality, brains, etc, but not love the person – chemistry-wise. And...

WHO LOVE EPP? IS LOVE ALONE ENOUGH TO SUSTAIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

I have discovered that love doesn’t guarantee the success of a relationship. Love alone cannot help you stick to one person all year round, and on the other hand, cheating isn’t always a product of not loving your partner. In fact, loving someone doesn’t guarantee not falling in love with...

LOVING WITH ONE HEART: ZUCIYA DAYA – BEZ

Contrary to the popular saying, there can be romance without finance. But that’s a topic I will talk another day.  Today we’ll let Bez do the talking, or singing rather. In his song Zuciya Daya, he tells the story of a broke guy who fell in love with a rich...

ON WIVES AND IN-LAWS – BY MARTINA OMORODION

Oh yes!  The almighty in-law’s. After one finally gets a ring on it, walks down the aisle and is firmly planted in the house flourishing like a plant by the riverside, the almighty in-laws come calling. There are two categories of in-laws. The mother in- law and the siblings in-...

THE CON IN CONDOMS: IS YOUR SAFE SEX REALLY SAFE?

  One of the biggest cons of modern civilization is the condom. A blessing and a curse, the condom has been very helpful in averting the spread of STDs and unwanted pregnancies; and also very instrumental in causing a number of them. The fact of the matter is that there...

GROWING THROUGH HEARTBREAK

When I was in my early teens, I promised myself I would never experience a heartbreak. I would never ever ‘allow’ anyone break my heart. I was going to keep it safe. Guard it. Protect it. And only give it out to someone who would treasure it enough to not...

10 SWEET ILLUSTRATIONS OF WHAT LOVE IS

These heart-warming illustrations by  Andrew Hou  show what love is. What started out as birthday sms messages for his girlfriend (now his wife), grew into a website with hundreds of mini comics about love. Here are our top 10 of his illustrations   1.  Love is waking up like this...

10 TYPES OF HEART-BREAKERS.

If you’re like me and billions of other people on this planet, you’ve probably gotten your heart broken a few times. And also probably done your own share of breaking hearts. Now while we’re all good peoples, at least most of us, when it comes to love we somehow tend...

THIS THING CALLED LOVE (ii)

Life and Love are as easy or as hard as you choose to make it. Last week, we talked about this thing called love and the choices we make. Looking back at my relationship timeline and the choices I have made, I give myself a pat on the back for...

A PSYCHIC LOVE: BEZ – YOU SUPPOSE KNOW

How I suppose take know na? I’m I psychic? Dear guys, if you love her, let her know. Gbam! This song is one of the sweetest Nigerian love song, and most likely to remain an evergreen number. These are the words of a guy who understands his girl’s insecurities, and...

DO NICE GUYS EVER FINISH FIRST? THE DRAKE, RIHANNA SAGA.

THE NICE GUY MYTH You know how people always say ‘nice guys finish last? That a guy who treats a lady well and is vulnerable enough to be open about the depth of his feelings, will end up losing her to the bad boy in the race for her heart....

THIS THING CALLED LOVE (i)

What is this thing called love? Hmmm…this thing called love… I used to think I knew what it was. I even convinced myself I was in love a couple of times, but time and circumstances proved otherwise. Because if I was truly in love, then I should still be, right?...